I’m all about finding positive methods to make an influence on your life. And I recently came across a video by Sunny Lenarduzzi breaking down the Law of Attraction and how it works for her. In reality, it has more basis in fact than what many might realize.
Everyone can go about making a positive impact on their life according to what works best for them. After all, everyone is different. However, using Sunny’s tips is a good place to start.
…no matter how you proceed.
What is the Law of Attraction?
The Law of Attraction breaks down to bringing into your life what you put out into the Universe. I know; it sounds a bit tree-huggery, but stay with me for a moment.
If you are open-minded and positive, you can essentially manifest your dreams through influenced actions. In fact, Sunny Lenarduzzi is a prime example of how positive influence can shape your life.
It’s not about luck, but about keeping your goals in mind and how you want to achieve them.
Being in a Positive Headspace
You’ve probably heard the saying, “Positive things happen to positive people.” But how much of that saying have you ever really thought about? Can you pinpoint times in your life when positive or negative things have happened?
I know I can.
Being in a positive headspace influences your actions both on a conscious and subconscious level.
A good example of this is dieting and losing weight. If you start a diet with a negative frame of mind, there’s a much greater chance it isn’t going to work. That’s because you’ve already made an influenced decision on the experience by being negative.
When I’m asked, “What’s the best diet plan,” my answer is always, “the one that works best for you.”
Approaching anything with a positive attitude is going to influence the experience for the better. Whether you’re looking for a job, writing a novel, getting fit or looking for love, success comes down to being in a positive headspace.
Writing Things Down
Sunny tells how writing things down in a journal helps her with the Law of Attraction. Does this mean the Universe is reading your journal? No. However, it does help you keep goals in mind.
Back in school, there was a reason why your teachers made you write everything down in class. This is because writing things down helps you remember. In this case, it’s remembering the things you want to accomplish and how you want to get from point A to point B.
And personally, I find it more effective to actually write than to type it on the computer. Don’t get me wrong, typing a blog post or writing things down in Word helps.
But for me, it’s simply far more effective to write things down with good ‘ol fashion pen and paper. In fact, I even write in cursive…a skill most young kids and adults have no idea how to do today.
Knowing What You Want
In the video above, Sunny explains how you need to know what you want. And this is true in every regard. But you need to go into a bit of detail.
Don’t just say, “I want to be a millionaire.” How do you plan on getting there? Do you want to be an author of a New York Times Best Seller? Perhaps you want to become a millionaire by creating your own business.
It all starts with going into detail about what you really want out of life. Just keep in mind the Law of Attraction isn’t going to do all the heavy lifting.
Live Your Dreams
One way to make positive things happen in your life is by living your dreams. When doing so, you’re keeping yourself in a positive mindset while influencing your actions to get to where you want.
I’m not saying that you should run up your credit cards because you’re “living as a millionaire.” But, feeling and dressing successful can go a long way to reinforcing your mindset.
Case in point, I am a professional writer. The way I manifest some of my success is dressing the part. Which means I don’t sit at my desk in PJs while working for clients. I’m not in a suit and tie, but I do dress business casual.
Even if I’m home alone and will not see clients throughout the entire day, I’ll put on some clothes and a bit of cologne.
Will it to Happen
The video by Sunny Lenarduzzi reminds me of the beginning of Lethal Weapon 4. It’s the scene where they are “willing” the suspect to “not turn around.” Martain Riggs proclaims the power of positive thinking.
In essence, this is the Law of Attraction at work, but more on a grandiose and immediate scale. The premise is to use the power of positive thinking to influence the surroundings. I know…sounds like something a Jedi would practice.
However, there is something to be said about will power and making changes in your life. In reality, you’re making yourself motivated to accomplish goals.
Now, I’m not saying that you can “will” things into existence out of thin air. However, being mindful of your willpower when it comes to being positive can make a massive impact on success.
So far, I’ve lost 80 pounds due to having the willpower to see my goals manifest. I am a successful freelance writer because I forced myself to train and work by looking at myself as a positive entity.
I, to some degree, willed these things to happen.
And lastly, it takes more than just writing your goals down and crossing your fingers. It takes action to achieve your goals, even when the Law of Attraction is involved.
Do you think Sunny Lenarduzzi is successful today because she sat around and waited for the Universe to manifest everything? Absolutely not.
Without action, there is no result.
Want to be a successful author? Putting the goal down on paper can get you in the right headspace, but writing the novel is required.
My point is that effort is mandatory if you want the Law of Attraction to work for you.
It’s All About Positivity
Being positive about something affects more than just how you feel. It can affect those around you, decision making, processing information, and the moods of others.
But when you’re negative all the time, you’re going to experience difficulty.
How ever you do it, let the Law of Attraction guide your path. It’s all about positivity, and there are a lot of papers and studies that demonstrate just how well it works on a personal and professional level.